Effective Communication is when:-
... Krishna and Arjun walk out of the Mahabharata, and stop raging battles with the self!
... Ghalib ceases to instigate the human soul and begins to question the need to talk and answers, "Duboyaa mujh ko hone ne, na hotaa mai.n to kyaa hotaa!"
... Patience and humility creep in to overshadow the 'self', the big E - EGO!
... Communication student number 28 stands up and talks, listens, feels, reacts!
... Media student: grabs the mouth piece, being careful about what to mass communicate. Asks first, " are you communicating with immediate self and self surrounders effectively?"
... Belief that you are loved and have the capacity to love, then develop language, add context and meaning, and then communicate- but don't talk.